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*Stress*
All
kinds of situation can build up irritation
and fatigue that causes stress. Stress in
such situations means pressure, conflict,
loss of control, and uncertainty.
It
can be dealing with difficult problems at
work or even unhappy relationships, stress
over finances, nerve wrecking situations
like job interviews,auditions and even sitting
for an examination. Unemployment, bereavement
of loved ones and friends,emotional turmoil
and simple every day situations like being
stuck in a traffic jam and even waiting
for test results can add to stress.These
feelings can lead to a variety of problems
for all members of a family too.
When
stressed, your body creates extra energy
to protect itself.This additional energy
cannot be destroyed. If not used, it creates
an imbalance within your system. Somehow
the energy must be channeled into responses
to regain a balance.Stress is your body’s
physical and psychological response to anything
you perceive as overwhelming.This may be
viewed as a result of life’s demands, pleasant
or unpleasant, and your lack of resources
to meet them.Stress is a natural part of
your life. Without some stress you would
lose your energy for living. You will thrive
on certain amounts;but too much or too little
stress will limit your effectiveness. Ideally,
you find your optimal level of stress—the
balance at which you are most motivated.In
all of these cases, you can not deal with
the cause of the stress, at least not quickly
enough. As a result, the stress persists
and begins to take its toll on:
Your
health :
When
you 'gear up' under stress, your body begins
to do more of some things and less of others.
For example,blood circulation increases,
but digestion slows down or even stops.
Once the stress ends, your body goes to
work to restore the balance. However,if
stress returns too soon, your body will
never have time to get back on an even keel.
Eventually, this can lead to major health
problems.Some, like heart disease and ulcers,
can put you in hospital. Others (sleeplessness,
headaches, poor digestion) are less acute,
but still serious.
Your
relations with other people:
Under
stress, most people become so wrapped up
in their own problems that they forget about
everyone else.
At
the same time, they begin to take out their
feelings on family and friends.
The
result can be bad feelings between family
members, along with the loss of friends.
As well, stress quickly becomes a family
problem, not just your own.
Your
efficiency in your work:
For
a short time, stress can make you a better,
more efficient worker.
However,
over the long haul, it will gradually wear
you down. You will become physically weaker
and begin to tire easily.
At
the same time, you will find it difficult
to concentrate and will begin to make poor
management decisions.
Because
of weariness and lack of concentration,
you also will become much more accident-prone.
More
stress
Stress
will have a snowballing effect, because
all of the problems it causes -- health,
family, and work -- will become new troubles
in your life.When experiencing stress, you
may be affected totally, not only in your
body but also in your emotional reactions,
your personal thoughts, and your relations
with others.The following list of stress
symptoms contains the most typical reactions
to stress.It can also help you begin focusing
on ways to manage stress.Check any symptoms
you have noticed lately in yourself. Add
any symptoms that are not on the list.
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Physical
headaches
fatigue
insomnia
weight
change
change
in appetite
colds
digestive
upsets
pounding
heart
tighten
up/ neck and shoulders ache
accident
prone
restlessness
drug,
tobacco use
increased
alcohol
teeth
grinding
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Mental
forgetfulness
confusion
dull
senses
lethargy
poor
concentration
no
new ideas
low
productivity
boredom
negative
attitude
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Emotional
anxiety
irritability
the
“blues”
depression
mood
swings
nervous
laugh
bad
temper
worrying
crying
spells
easily
discouraged
Social
isolation
lowered
sex drive
resentment
nagging
loneliness
fewer
contacts
lashing
out with friends
clamming
up
using
people
Excessive
stress in your life interferes with your
interpersonal relationships at home,
on
the job, and socially. It can make you spend
your efforts on not being unhappy, rather
than on being happy.Stress can waste your
vitality and deplete your personal energy
resources that could be used for enjoyment.You
can become negatively influenced in your
attitudes and feelings about yourself more
easily.In addition, medical research estimates
as much as 90 percent of illness and disease
is stress-related.Stress can interfere with
your physical functioning and bodily processes
like:
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High blood pressure
·
Cardiovascular disease, and heart disease
have been linked to stress factors
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Other stress-related ailments include ulcers,
allergies, asthma, and migraine headaches.
Stress
may trigger:
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Hypertension
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High cholesterol
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Herpes
Causes
of Stress
Most
health professionals agree stress can be
a contributing factor in making existing
medical problems worse.Environmental and
societal pressures, our competitive,success-oriented
way of life may lead us to potentially hazardous
health.Everyone differs in what is stressful
or potentially stressful.What for one person
might seem to be a catastrophic event may
be a minor setback for another.
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Fears Cause Stress
Some
physical fears that can cause stress are:
·
Dangerous machinery;
·
Exposure to toxic chemicals;
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Dangerous, congested traffic.
Psychological
fears associated with stress include:
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Failure;
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Not being able to get the job done;
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Inability to manage debts; and
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Adult children who do not want the family
business.
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Uncertainty Causes Stress
In
each person’s life there are uncertainties
that can cause stress.
The
change of a job may necessitate many other
changes in the life of a person or family
members.Trying to sell a home and buy another
in the new location may be stressful. Logic
and informed predictions have a place, but
often stress piles up because there are
so many “unknowns” in such situations.Life
is filled with uncertainty. It is discomforting
not to know what is going to happen, particularly
if your control of the situation is impeded
by:
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Government policies and controls;
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Weather;
·
Market fluctuations;
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Illness;
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Interest rates;
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Mechanical breakdowns; and
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Accidents.
Uncertainty
may cause feelings of being out of control,
which can cause stress.
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Attitudes Cause Stress
A
positive or negative attitude influences
a person’s reaction to stressful situations.
For example, if you feel your job is worthwhile,
you
may see some of the problems you encounter
as challenges. Seen as pluses, the problems
or potential problems become motivators.
However,
if you resent your situation or feel “stuck”
in your job, similar experiences create
stress, a stress that frustrates instead
of motivating you.
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Perceptions Cause Stress
Past
experiences and the resources you feel you
have available to meet life’s demands will
affect the degrees of stress you may experience.
The
degree of stress experienced will be affected
by your perception of your ability to meet
the particular demands. How you perceive
the situation determines if it is or is
not stressful.
Perception
can be broken down in the following ways:
·
Self Your sense of competency, self-esteem,
values, interests, needs.
·
Resources Personal resources: Past experience
in handling stress, health;
Material
resources: Finances, equipment, storage;
and People resources: Other people who can
assist you, such as friends, coworkers,
family members, professionals.
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Change Causes Stress
All
change produces stress, even positive changes.
Marriage is a positive change that is also
a period when adjustment is necessary.
For
some people, this adjustment can be stressful.
A vacation may also be stressful; arrangements
must be made for the trip and for work,
and there is always a tendency to plan too
many activities.
Negative
changes are not as difficult to identify
as stress-producing. These are situations
you would not like to occur, such as children
leaving home to start careers,
economic
recession causing financial crisis, or loss
of a valuable possession.
Change
demands your adjustment to the particular
situation, whether you desire the change
or not.
Developmental
changes that you are able to plan for— pregnancy
and birth, children growing up, the aging
process—may still be stressful even though
anticipated.
The
following are more examples of stress-causing
changes:
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Work/business Operational change due to
technological advancement; Major change
in responsibility or work load due to shift
in partnership; Expansion or reduction in
production; Increasing skills to increase
efficiency, and Inflationary operating costs.
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Personal Illness or injury; Personal achievement
or disappointment, and Retirement.
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Social Illness or death of close friend;
Beginning or ending of formal education;
Change in social activities; and Involvement
in community service.
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Financial Major change in financial state;
Major purchase (home, equipment, land);
Additional family expenses (education, insurance,
illness); and Partial liquidation. What
changes have you and family members experienced
in the past several years?
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